
I've speckled this post with several of the interim "THAT ONE" moments we had on our way to settling on a design - some lasting for months - but all eventually breaking down under pressure when pondering important design details like: "Where will we put the Bakers Rack?" "The Bonus Room isn't wide enough to accommodate the pool table SIDEWAYS", "The screened-in

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Here are a few things I learned throughout the design-selection process:
1) Defining a detailed line-item budget for a particular design up-front is impossible and a waste of time/energy. Instead, go with basic cost-per-square-foot guidelines for different styles and classes of homes. They're generally very accurate for estimating purposes. There are a number of things that drive these costs up or down by a few percentage points, such as: (a) Material Costs (lumber varies widely throughout the year), (b) labor costs (labor is cheap now because no ones building due to economy), and (c) fuel (gas prices going up makes everything

2) Building yourself rather than hiring a General Contractor to build the home for you will save between 20-25% (maybe more) of YOUR money. The quality of materials, fixtures, appliances, and amenities will dictate your final cost-per-sq.ft. In general, an average 1200-1800 sq.ft. "starter" home with basic amenities might run you $90-$100/sq.ft from a GC/Builder, but only $75-$85/sq.ft. if you build yourself. Also, builders tend to use cheap-shit materials and cut whatever corners they can (e.g. putting in used fixtures left over or laying around from other jobs or returns) because ultimately they're only interested in the profit. When you build your own, you put in higher quality materials and workmanship by design, get EXACTLY what you want AND STILL SAVE 20%! I'm building a slightly higher-end luxury home which from a builder would run $135-$150/sq. ft. (because of added features like hardwood floors, granite counter tops, ceramic tile, walk-up-attic space, brick/stone veneer, etc.). It looks like I shouldn't have a problem coming in at about $100-$105/sq.ft. as my own builder. BTW - none of these numbers include the cost of the lot.
3) Try and think of everything you ever loved or hated about any house you've ever lived in and try to include/exclude those things accordingly. For example, we absolutely love our recessed screened in porch and hate having a "door-behind-a-door" in our bathroom and have assured the new design accommodates. I also like a large garage to work in with a big flat parking pad in front of it. And don't be too afraid to make it yours - with things like surround sound built in, custom-fitted shower nozzles, measured sink/counter/cabinet heights etc. (I'd love a pit in the garage but that's just not practical - and when you see Judy make sure you tell her that EVERYBODY has a pole in the Master Suite now!!).
Next time, I'll need to do a catch-up post so that we can fast-forward to where things stand today. Things are moving fast now and I'd like this to become a fairly real-time blog of the experience. Til next time...